Conflict Unleashed: A Case Study

Conflict unleashed seems to be in every headline. It makes people uneasy, on guard, defensive. This increases sensitivity.  We are more alert and ready to see danger and offence where it does not exist.  And in responding to… Read More

Whose Story Are You Hearing?

Stories have always been important to humans.  They help us to identify our Self, define ourselves, understand and interpret where we are, who we are.  We use Story to make sense of feelings, events, circumstances and the possibilities… Read More

Hear me…please

The most important gift you can give another person is your whole attention. Active listening has a number of components but the most important is to Be Present.  It requires commitment and practice. When you are really giving… Read More

Stories Define Us

If you’re having a bad day, be alert to the story you are telling yourself about what’s happening. All of us have a take on what’s going on for us. We explain, defend, justify and understand through the… Read More